Wha's on my mind

Can someone tell me the point of holding grudges on people ? What just because they've hurt you ? And it's like you're saying " you hurt me , I'll hurt you back " . I mean like , the fuck is that ? Well I do understand , different people , different way of thinking . But , as if you've never hurt someone or anyone in your life . Who are we to punished people ? Since when do we have the rights to do that ? Come on guys all of us are just humans who make mistakes all the time . We are not perfect and no one will be . For me , everyone deserve chances . I believe people can change . I don't do holding grudges thingy or even be mad just because what they've done in the past . yes the past hurts but you don't run from it . You face it . What is the point of staying mad all the time ? You can't change the past . You can't turn back time . Trust me if I can I would . But what's done is done you gotta learn how to let go of things . Evem it hurts you like hell when you keep having flashbacks on those memories back then . Memories , you juts can't erase em . Good times , bad times . Those things are gold . You don't have to reveng to people on what they did to you . Just sit back and relax , let Karma to the job for you . For me , forgiving people is better and you can have peace in a way . It won't kill you just to say " It's okay , I've forgive you " . For me it doesn't matter what is the situation is but forgiving is the best solution for everything . And you gotta let everything go and start over .